The two people were chatting while waiting at the bus stop when suddenly the younger one, focusing on a young girl passing by said in a low voice, 'Just look at that! What a mess! She looks awful!' The older woman smiled and replied, 'When anyone criticizes what you wear, you always say that people should feel free to wear what they like. So obviously she's wearing what she likes.' The younger one conceded with a smile, saying that she wouldn't wear it but then she has a different fashion sense. We might think someone looks nice or not because of what they are wearing, while they might see it differently. As the saying goes, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. 
On a less flippant note, my nephew's young son often likes to play at role reversal - his father/grandmother being him and he being them. He really is rather good at remembering things that they have said or done and playing them back to them as he sees it, reliving situations and conversations. It really is an eye-opener on just how he sees them and how he interprets what they say. Children so often manage to encompass in their playing what sometimes goes unnoticed to us. Things that we don't give a second thought about might come across to them as something they take notice of and remember sometimes in great detail to the point that we can wonder, 'Am I really like that? Is that how I said that?'. Children have an innocence that penetrates through all social etiquette and niceties to reveal just how things really are, at least as they appear to them.
We all see things differently, simply because we are all different, unique. We cherish our uniqueness yet at the same time struggle to accept another person's different approach and opinion. Often when someone says, 'The way I see it ...' they really mean that they think the other person is wrong and they will tell them exactly how it is and what is the right way. We can become quite intolerant of those who don't do or think as we do, thinking smugly, 'They really don't have a clue and they are just so wrong'. There is a built-in sort of arrogance that we can't be wrong, it must be them. Is there not just a possibility that both are right - in their own eyes? It all depends on how you see things. This often can depend on your circumstances, your cultural background, your emotions and feelings at a given moment. It seems strange that restaurants. shops, the entertainment business and so on cater for our different views and tastes in food, clothing, holidays, home decor, hobbies/interests and TV viewing so why, oh why, is it so difficult for us to accept that people just might have a different spiritual opinion from us? When it comes to God, it seems, we are always and totally right as though somehow we are in the privileged position of having a monopoly of the truth!
I remember one holiday in Scotland when we climbed up a hill through some woodland. Every so often there was a gap in the trees and a seat where you could rest awhile and take in the scenery. What we discovered was that we saw different things at different stopping points. Some objects became hidden from view while others became clearer. The overall picture was constantly changing depending on where we were on the hill. That has always remained with me over the years as an important life lesson. People are different, each one unique, as we so often like to say. So why is it so hard to accept another's point of view, another way of looking at things, another angle, another's belief system or spiritual leaning? God has an overall view while, as the apostle Paul says, we only see in part. In the same passage, Paul says that as a child he thought and acted in a certain way but as he grew, his thoughts changed. We are constantly changing as our view on life changes, as we experience different situations. So let's show a little more tolerance and acceptance of others. At least, that's the way I see it. (Maybe someone will tell me I'm wrong!).
